Please report back when you implement my suggestions, even when they're not successful. Otherwise, I'm in the dark about what you''ve done so I'm always left guessing. You're hyperfixating on the network aspect and all the Wireshark stuff, and I'm still not convinced it's actually the problem.
To troubleshoot this correctly, you simply have to isolate as many variables as possible. Please work with me here and report feedback. Thanks!
So this looks more "normal" I would say, both in & out are now at 45 packets/s which is what I'd expect to see. Did you experience problems this round? Was this a good round or a bad one? How bad, exactly? Did you even notice any difference to the other rounds?
The spikes are somewhat strange but I wouldn't mind it. It looks fine, as the spikes are only 1 packet/s up or down. It's not like it's spiking do double that or dropping off to 0.
