Thank you for the contributions! Thanks!
My ISP is = Vodafone (Germany)
I would really like to switch to FTTH, but what should I do if it isn't expanded? Here in Germany, everything works differently (difficult). Since Vodafone offers gigabit (via cable/DOCSIS) here, no other ISP feels compelled to roll out fiber optics. They probably don't see any potential for new customers in this area (I live in one of Germany's largest cities).
My only options are cable internet from Vodafone (the line belongs to Vodafone) or VDSL 250/40. There is no other option.
4G/5G work poorly here because the network is always at its limit. A friend once had a 4G device from Vodafone for home and often had a ping of +999ms in Warzone (he only plays Warzone). He says: Forget it!
We never max out our line. My wife watches YouTube/Netflix. The kids play PC, Nintendo, or PS5 and also watch YouTube, etc. Nothing unusual. The load is very low.
The FritzBox 6690 isn't my property. It belongs to Vodafone, and I pay €10 for it (including dual stack). The problem is: If you use your own modem/router with Vodafone (and there aren't many options for Euro-Docsis), you can almost certainly be sure you'll have to pay for every technician call out yourself. I had that experience back then. That's why I'd rather pay €10 and not have a headache.
And I see that friends who have the same line + FritzBox don't have any problems at all.
Another fact about the ISP: He was a technician here who said the problem wasn't in the house, but in a distribution box down the street. He said the signal quality wasn't OK. But Vodafone says everything's fine here. They're not listening to me anymore.
Facts:
1.) I enabled all the options in BF2042 to make problems visible, but everything looks normal.

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2.) I have the problems with overclocking (which has been running flawlessly for years and has been thoroughly tested) and I have them without overclocking!
3.) I have the problems with Windows 10 and also with Windows 11.
4.) I have the problems on four different computers (12900K, 5800X, 7800X3D, and 9800X3D).
5.) I also have the problems when using the FritzBox only as a modem and using an Asus router.
6.) The game doesn't put any strain on my computer (hardware) or connection at all (very minimal)
7.) All sensor values (e.g., temperatures) are practically perfect (it couldn't be better)
8.) I die so quickly that I can't really do anything about it.
9.) I play very aggressively, but I don't get any advantage from it (that was never the case back then)
10.) Others seem to see/read my moves like a prophet
11.) I'm a very strong FPS gamer (above average)
12.) Sometimes my opponents die with three shots and then suddenly with a full magazine they don't die (50 rounds!)
13.) I suddenly lose every duel. No chance.
14.)
It feels like I'm playing at 500ms. Like I'm in the past.
15.) Sometimes I think the game is intentionally downgrading my shots or
gives me a delay
I don't want to adjust anything, etc., but I'm desperate. It's my only hobby in life.